what to consider before quitting therapy, how do i know when to quit therapy

Have you ever found yourself sitting in the therapy room or even between therapy sessions, wondering if it’s really doing anything for you? It’s totally normal. But before you make the decision to quit, let’s take a closer look at whether quitting therapy is the right move.

First off, it’s okay to question therapy’s effectiveness. Sometimes, it feels like we’re not getting anywhere, even though we’re putting in the work. But here’s the thing: therapy is like a journey, and sometimes, we hit bumps or take detours. It doesn’t mean therapy isn’t working; it might just mean we need to adjust our course.

If you’re thinking about calling it quits, it might be beneficial to talk to your therapist about it first. Your therapist is there to help, even with tough stuff like this. Be honest about what’s not clicking for you. Maybe you’re not feeling heard, or maybe the therapy style doesn’t suit you. Whatever it is, speaking up can help you and your therapist figure out what to do next. It can help identify if therapy itself isn’t working or some other factor.

Here are a few things to consider:

1. Give it Time: Healing isn’t like flipping a switch; it takes time and patience. Stick with it a bit longer before deciding.

2. Therapist Connection: Think about whether you and your therapist click. Feeling comfortable and understood is key.

3. Therapy Style: Maybe the approach your therapist is using isn’t quite right for you. That’s okay! There are different kinds of therapy out there.

4. Are You Ready?: Ask yourself if you’re really ready to dive into therapy. Sometimes, outside stuff can get in the way of making progress.

5. Other Options: If traditional therapy isn’t your thing, that’s okay. There are other ways to get support, like support groups or trying a different kind of therapy.

Remember, it’s your journey. If therapy isn’t working for you right now, it’s okay to explore other options. The most important thing is finding what helps you feel better and supported.


Written by Weii Yie

Weii Yie is an associate therapist at ABRI where she primarily provides therapy to adults and adolescents. Her love for writing and passion for mental health are translated into these blog posts. Read more about who she is as a therapist on the Team page.

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